On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh explore the many fears of commitment people have. Some fears are more obvious than others, so the two get to the root of what’s really behind why people avoid commitment. Tune in and see which one you may relate to, then decide if you’re ready to let go of your fear.
Season 3, Episode 15 uncovers the main reasons why men won’t commit. Garcia gets real honest about reasons why he wouldn’t commit in the past – some you might expect and others are hard to hear. Of course, men aren’t the only ones who won’t commit, so SunAh shares some reasons why women won’t fully commit. The episode ends with the two talking about some petty reasons why they didn’t want to commit.
Season 1 of Which Cup is Mine podcast ends with a special guest: hip hop artist, producer, song writer, author, pastor, your neighborhood hope dealer – Mr. Delmar Lawrence aka Mr. Del. Bringing all of his relationship expertise to the podcast, Mr. Del delves into love, lies, and of course soul ties. After breaking down what soul ties are and how they are created, Mr. Del explains the importance of creating a culture within your relationship.
The podcast then takes a detour from romantic relationships to talk about Mr. Del’s time with Three 6 Mafia. Mr. Del gives a quick history lesson on the early Memphis rap scene including how he got signed to Three 6 Mafia, the story behind his most infamous hit song “Azz & Tittiez,” and what led him to leave the group in the middle of their national tour. As you can imagine, all of these past experiences affected his dating life.
Of course, it wouldn’t be Which Cup is Mine without getting all in Mr. Del’s dating business! Mr. Del keeps it transparent as he shares how his family life shaped his outlook on romantic relationships. Garcia and Mr. Del talk about the generational curses that they are breaking and one of the common mistakes women make in dating. In case you are wondering, Mr. Del is single, and in this episode he shares what’s on his “list” for the type of woman he’s looking for. The episode ends with Mr. Del giving advice on what is needed to have a healthy, whole relationship.
For more about the Soul Ties book series, the Soul Ties podcast, and to register for the FREE “When Men Worship” online conference happening on Father’s Day, click the link in Mr. Del’s Instagram bio @soultiestrilogy and go to dellawrence.com
Garcia and SunAh share some of the relationships they saw growing up and key relationships they had when they were younger that affected how they approached relationships as adults. Garcia explains why he avoided commitment, and SunAh unsuccessfully attempts to dodge a question about her past. The episode ends with a conversation about proposals.