Ep 14. Communication Issues

How important is communication in a relationship? In this episode, Garcia and SunAh share some reasons why they haven’t been great communicators in the past – sometimes it’s a matter of respect other times you don’t want to hurt the person’s feelings. Are there certain topics that should or should not be discussed when dating? If you should talk about them, how do you know when it’s the right time? The two run down some topics that they think should be communicated and how they’ve approached the issues including living together, finances, love languages, weddings, and health history. They also discuss their unique approach to addressing issues in their relationship. The episode ends with each giving tips for communicating with the opposite sex.

 
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Ep 13. Sex on the First Night

Does sex on the first night ruin your chances for a relationship? Garcia and SunAh talk about giving it up on the first night – the pros, the cons, and one big misconception. Garcia reasons if you’re going to have sex anyways, why not do it on the first night? Because one thing is for certain: sex on the first night might not end a relationship but bad sex definitely can. The two share how far into dating they were before they had sex and how things might have been different if they would have had sex on the first night.

 
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Ep 12. 50/50 Finances

On Episode 12 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh discuss a sensitive subject: money. Even though everyone has some idea of how they expect finances should be handled in a relationship or, if and when you should live together, most people don’t talk about it until it’s too late. Garcia and SunAh talk about their experiences with splitting the bills and cohabitating and what they would do moving forward. The episode closes with an even sticker situation when Garcia asks: if the person you were in a relationship lost their job, would you let them live with you?

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Ep 11. Side Piece

Garcia and SunAh turn up the heat on Episode 11 as they answer the question: have you ever dated someone who was in a relationship or married? While most people wouldn’t publicly discuss such a taboo subject, the two bare it all. Find out how each of them came to be the side piece, who feels no remorse, and how they approach playing your position. The episode ends with a lively debate on how they could spice up their relationship without either of them having a side piece of their own.

 
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Ep 10. Nobody’s Perfect

It can be hard to do, but on this episode Garcia and SunAh get real honest about their own flaws and mistakes when it comes to dating. They tell some hard truths about who they have been in past relationships, the defense mechanisms that didn’t work, and the toxic behaviors they chose not to bring into their relationship with one another. The episode closes with a confession from Garcia: he didn’t believe he deserved happiness. The question to our listeners is: do you?

 

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Ep 9. Garcia’s Birthday Episode

It’s a special day on Which Cup is Mine as co-host Garcia celebrates his 38th birthday! On this episode, Garcia and SunAh take a trip down memory lane and finally share the details on how they went from DMs to dating. They both reveal some of the surprising moments that made them reconsider the “no relationship” stance they both initially started with: the events that showed them they needed one another, the unexpected thing that Garcia did that turned SunAh on, and a turn of phrase that put pressure on Garcia. Throughout the episode they drop some dating tips and tricks that you don’t want to miss.

 
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Ep 8. Dealbreakers and Red Flags

We all have them even though sometimes we ignore them. On Episode 8 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh reveal dating dealbreakers including a couple they’ve reconsidered and one particularly petty one that will forever result in an automatic ‘no.’ While red flags can be just as subjective, they share a few that shouldn’t be ignored if you want to avoid relationship issues, and Garcia brings attention to an important interracial dating red flag.

 

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Ep. 7 Looks vs Personality

Never ones to shy away from a taboo topic, Garcia and SunAh answer the question: do weight and/or looks matter when selecting a mate? The episode kicks off with each of them describing what other people think their type is before the two share the types they’ve actually been attracted to. Both agree that personality matters more but you may be surprised at where their opinions diverge. They share how their family and friends have influenced their dating choices, and SunAh opens up about an insecurity that has shaped her dating experiences. The episode ends with Garcia sharing his preference for a certain type of woman and why.

 

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Ep 5. To Tell the Truth

Episode 5 of Which Cup is Mine finds Garcia and SunAh struggling over the right thing to do. If you know your friend is being cheated on, should you tell them? Both Garcia and SunAh share personal experiences of how they handled a situation when they knew a friend’s mate was cheating. Does friendship require telling the truth or is silence golden? Between Garcia and SunAh, find out who believes ignorance is bliss and who wants to know the truth even if it hurts.

 

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